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Blindfold bonking tops the sex bucket list for women

But, for the men, three’s not a crowd – inviting someone else to join in tops the bill

This year has been a defining one. It has forced us remember our wants, needs and desires as well as a time to reconnect with ourselves and our partners. This has led to a lot of people wanting to try new things both in and out of the bedroom.

To explore just how kinky and audacious Brits have been this past year, set out to investigate what men and women are eager to try sexually. Close to 3,000 (2,897) Brits were asked to rank 10 activities that they really want to try with their partners!

And this is what women said they wanted:

Sex in a Jacuzzi31%
Sex in an elevator26%
Sexy photoshoot20%
Phone sex14%
Car sex12%
Bringing in a third party12%
Sex on beach10%
Watching porn with partner9%
Using flavoured lube8%
Writing FanFic for partner7%

In first place is being blindfolded with a close to a third (35%) of women wishing to try this sex fad. Shutting down one sense intensifies others, so it is no wonder that the idea of being blindfolded elevates the interest of many. How much inspiration was gained from watching the 50 Shades of … trilogy? We can only guess.

Coming in at number two for women is sex in a jacuzzi with 31% of the votes. Interestingly, this was rated highly among men and women, with 5% more women wanting to try this than men.

In third place for the girls is sex in an elevator with 26% of the votes. Well, we could all do with a lift every now and then.

In last place for women (and not for everyone) is writing a fanfic for their partner at 7% of the votes.

What men want:

Bringing in a third party36%
Video call sex30%
Sex in a Jacuzzi26%
Sex in a public toilet22%
Making a sex tape20%
Sex on a balcony19%
Watching porn with partner17%
Anal sex14%
Car sex13%
Couple toys12%
One night stand9%
Sex with food8%
Playing with hot wax5%

The survey showed that men’s top desire on their sexual bucket list is bringing in a third party (36%).

With the use of  Zoom increasing by 2,000% over lockdown, it’s no surprise that men cited video call sex as their second most desired sexual venture with 30% of the vote! Just make sure your family members are not invited to join the call by accident!

Coming in third place for men, is sex in a jacuzzi, with 26% of the vote.

Not for the faint hearted – last on the list for men is playing with hot wax, with 5% of the vote! The famous scene from Wolf of Wall Street may have seen a new flamed interest in the activity.

No hot wax in sight but we feature a favourite scene from the Wolf of Wall Street. A warning – this is probably one of the most foul-mouthed film scenes you can encounter. If liberal use of the f-word is a turn-off, do not play this clip

Methodology: surveyed 1,445 men and 1,452 women, asking them to divulge their sexual bucket list. They then analysed the data and examined the top 10 activities for women and men. All data was collected late in September.

David Buckley

Dave Buckley is a career journalist. “I once went painting girders for a week and discovered I didn’t like heights,” he says. “Apart from that it has always been journalism for me in one form or another.” Past local weekly publications he has worked for include: the South-East London Mercury* covering the Borough of Greenwich as a junior reporter; Orpington-based News Shopper as a sub-editor; and the Kent Messenger when based in Larkfield, Maidstone, as deputy chief sub-editor. He has also worked for the following dailies/nationals: Daily Express, Today*, News of the World* and Hong Kong Star*. All those marked with an asterisk no longer exist (trend emerging?). He owned and edited a Thailand-based property magazine before returning to England and currently works as a production editor on a car fleet magazine. His first foray into property ownership saw him move from London to Rainham (the Gillingham, Kent, variety). He has subsequently lived in Chislehurst, Petts Wood and Orpington in the Borough of Bromley (which he still regards as being in Kent). In more recent years he owned three different properties on the Kings Hill (West Malling) development.

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